My idea of LOVE (about 4-5 years ago) :
I thought that LOVE is something you should feel deep in your heart and shouldn't have any kind of conditions,limits or barriers for it such as money,education,race,etc..But now I have this little advanced idea,
1.He should love me more than anyone else in the world and should not lie to me because I hate LIARS & CHEATERS!
2.He should be able to understand me,make me happy,take care of me,listen to what i say and control me in all the silly things I do.
3.He should be educated than me,taller than me-a lot.( I don't care about the look-because it wont last long! )
4.I don't care about the race,religion,age etc. (but my parents think about it)
5.I don't care about his past or how many relationships he has had before,as long as he is faithful to me-because faith is the foundation for LOVE!!!!!
6.He should trust me!
If I start an affair, I expect it to end in marriage,then start a new( something beyond an affair ) chapter of my life and live with that person the whole rest of my life.I don't prefer divorces because we give an oath/a promise to god (in my religion )to live your whole life with that particular person.
So that's why people should think more than twice before choosing a partner.
But if get a very serious problem and if I cant live with him anymore I won't neglect to divorce him (but I'd definitely try every thing to solve the problem & save my family - Wish I won't be getting any problem like that!
Well people that is my idea of LOVE & MARRIAGE!!!!!!
PS: I'm single.
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Nice post.......... Though most of us don't care about the religion and every thing our parents think about it a lot. (according to my personal experience)
ReplyDeleteBut you have a good attitude about it. Great!
Why do parents care about useless things like religion and the horoscope. Love is not bound by those. Love comes from the heart. AWESOME POST :)
ReplyDeleteYes......!
ReplyDeleteLove doesn't have limits of any kind.
Ha..
ReplyDeleteI feel "Starstrukk" now...
Anyway, Mayuka, the "distance" matters when it comes to love(even with all this technology).
Many of my friends had their love lives destroyed because they simply couldnt be with that person(who was, abroad). Its their fault anyway to go out with Indian chicks... like their aint any here.
Yes...I also don't know why parents think about it but we don't really think about the Horoscope ( I'm a catholic! ) & yes Mayukha, LOVE doesn't have any limits-for me it is UNCONDITIONAL I must say,when it comes to LOVE!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteokay. now everyone has gone nuts. what's with you guys???
ReplyDeletec'mon every single love in this world is conditional. no matter how much you say it's unconditional.
Aruni nanga, if you have fallen in love- TRUE LOVE - you wont say that it has conditions or limits! But when you break that trust or loose faith in the one you love,you'll never know where it goes!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYeah... Aruni, soon or later you'll find that love is unconditional as Asuni and I have mentioned. For you Thanuja, it can't be LOVE that your friends had!! Just an attraction....
ReplyDeleteCOME ON MAYUKHA!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteU realy think the way I think-about love!!!
:-)
Hey do you have any experiences in LOVE???????????
well............yes... :(
ReplyDeleteBut,Not exactly the best experience 2 have.
Just gave it up after 3 months as I found out that I was just a "spare wheel of a bus."
Think you get what I meant...
Asuni, This post is really interesting,no dout.LOVE is something which comes from the hart we cannot take it by foce.You must find a guy who really loves you and trust you othewise you will suffer in the future.(I suffered a lot,trust me).
ReplyDeleteI m teling yoy because i had a horrible experince like that on last few days(i know this comment is too long) i dont want that to be happened for any one on this world.SO PLEASE be careful ABOUT IT. Im 100% sure that you will find your prince very quckly as you wish.
Who knows Asuni, (YOU might have already found your lucky prince as you wished) am i correct?????.
ReplyDeleteNo Thushan..................Not yet!!!!!!!!!!!!
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